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заЮля сказав(ла):
I agree... At least this is how me and a lot of my girl-friends were brought up.
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I understand. I think I am just being too much of teenager. (Time to grow up). I also think that when You meet someone REALLY special- You know it right away. On the first date with my late wife, I knew there was something there. You are right, I should just stop thinking like a teenager.
 
Anutik@ сказав(ла):
hmm i dont know... but im sure it does... i mean if you are a family you start thinking about children, buying a house together and so on... this problems and targets fill up your life...
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What if a guy already has everything in place? What if there are no (or very few) so called problems. Does that make any difference?
 
Oh, Christ, I haven't seen this topic yet :) Nice idea, thank you.

Well, I just wonder where in Kharkiv it's real to speak English, you know, verbally, speaking, not writing :) I think I know English quite well, but I haven't enough speaking practice, although I read books in English. I mean, the place or people to speak for free :) , maybe not more than for a beer ;)

And, of course, the main criterion is a native speaker :)
 
Sturgis сказав(ла):
Oh, Christ, I haven't seen this topic yet :) Nice idea, thank you.

Well, I just wonder where in Kharkiv it's real to speak English, you know, verbally, speaking, not writing :) I think I know English quite well, but I haven't enough speaking practice, although I read books in English. I mean, the place or people to speak for free :) , maybe not more than for a beer ;)

And, of course, the main criterion is a native speaker :)
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It's very hard to find such person in Kharkov, but if you have good internet connection you can use Skype to chat in English.
 
Sturgis сказав(ла):
Well, actually, I haven't got one, but, anyway, thanks for suggestion :)
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Ok, probable I still could help a little. I learnt English myself without any teaches and I know how difficult it can be. I'm coming in Kharkov in about a month and I can bring some films or cartoons on dvd for you, with proper british Egnlish. I've got some good audiobooks as well. I used them for learning myself and it really helps. If you are interested write me I'll be glad to help. :)
 
ap3572001 сказав(ла):
What if a guy already has everything in place? What if there are no (or very few) so called problems. Does that make any difference?
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So if I were your wife I d decorate OUR house the way I d like to. and you could argue with me about it. And I also would buy some new furniture, that you would think is a stupid thing to do... and I d say you have no idea... and so on.... but there is a kind of sharing problems, sharing ideas, sharing lifes.... there is no yours and no mines if you understand what I mean, we go the same way...
 
Sturgis сказав(ла):
Oh, Christ, I haven't seen this topic yet :) Nice idea, thank you.

Well, I just wonder where in Kharkiv it's real to speak English, you know, verbally, speaking, not writing :) I think I know English quite well, but I haven't enough speaking practice, although I read books in English. I mean, the place or people to speak for free :) , maybe not more than for a beer ;)

And, of course, the main criterion is a native speaker :)
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Some years ago there was an "English Speaking Club" organized by some Americans. It took place every Wednesday in... oh I forgot how it was called. I'll write as soon as I can remeber it... Try to find some information about it from people you know
 
Anutik@ сказав(ла):
So if I were your wife I d decorate OUR house the way I d like to. and you could argue with me about it. And I also would buy some new furniture, that you would think is a stupid thing to do... and I d say you have no idea... and so on.... but there is a kind of sharing problems, sharing ideas, sharing lifes.... there is no yours and no mines if you understand what I mean, we go the same way...
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You are right. I thought about it. But I am different in that way. all the time I was married, I never argued about :what furniture to buy, which gardeners to hire ETC. She even bought our house while I was away on business . Just send a photo, said she liked it, and thats it. We never argued about the regular stuff. I worked, she took care of all other business (exept cars),but we handled the kids together.
 
ap3572001 сказав(ла):
You are right. I thought about it. But I am different in that way. all the time I was married, I never argued about :what furniture to buy, which gardeners to hire ETC. She even bought our house while I was away on business . Just send a photo, said she liked it, and thats it. We never argued about the regular stuff. I worked, she took care of all other business (exept cars),but we handled the kids together.
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and the way it was was it ok for you?
 
ap3572001 сказав(ла):
Yes , it worked for me very well. It also worked for Her. I think.
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but you are divoced now, arent you? so something went wrong.... i mean if you as my partner are not interested in thing I do, I ll be less and less interested in doing those things... I mean somebody has to appreciate my efforts. therefore the only connection that still there is children... but it not always enough....
i m not trying to criticise... I m too young for it... i just dont believe it works for a long term...
 
Anutik@ сказав(ла):
but you are divoced now, arent you? so something went wrong.... i mean if you as my partner are not interested in thing I do, I ll be less and less interested in doing those things... I mean somebody has to appreciate my efforts. therefore the only connection that still there is children... but it not always enough....
i m not trying to criticise... I m too young for it... i just dont believe it works for a long term...
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No , I was very interested. I trusted Her with everything and made sure that She always felt the appreciation . Well, I am not divorced. She died . She was much younger than me.
 
Anutik@ сказав(ла):
oh... im very sorry to hear it... please excuse my stupid comments :(
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No problem. How could You know. Also , Your comments are not stupid . You made some good points in what You said. I tell You , She is gone , but I am very glad I gave Her the life that she had. Even though it was very short. I have no regrets.
 
Oki, now I read the whole story from the very beginning... To be honest I havent done it before and now I can see, I was not actually answering your question...
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ap3572001 сказав(ла):
Do You run in to stuff like that? I mean when I was 18-19 we did it this way all the time. So in Kharkov do You meet couples who are just "friends with benefits"? How do You feel about it?
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ap3572001 сказав(ла):
I went out with a girl from Moscow. On a second date she says something about my intensions? How the hell do I know? I love a long term with prospective deal. BUT. I think a prospective comes AFTER You both have done ALOT together.Am I wrong?
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That has nothing to do with Kharkov or any other city or even country. it s your age that s matter. As long as you are say under 30 (this age limit depends both on country you are living in and on what kind of person you are) you re careless and unworried. You just have fun. Having sex, meeting new people, drinking beer with some friend, making crazy things - that is this careless style of living the most people have when they are young... so were you... so i am still now... now I m not interested in any long-term relationship, I dont want to live with a particular man together and share everything with him... (Despite I cant afford me to rent a flat by myself, but i still better share it with another students(what i actually do), than put me in some kind of "fixed" relationship) Because i m not ready for it... not now... I want enjoy me being free....

As for you, you ve already reached another step of life... And it s normal that other people expect you behave accordingly. You have already children, a house, a job. You seems to be someone woman can rely on. At least they will think so. It like if you are an adult everybody will expect you dont watch cartoons anymore... (But why shouldnt you? you can still like it ;) )

The second aspect is women you are dating. I mean on which life step are they? As for me I m not interested in anything now, but I'' surely be in several years. If I meet someone now, I ask myself questions like: is he cool? how is he in bed? such stupid stuff... with 30 I'll be asking myself: will he be a good parent for our children? can I rely on him? is his job well-paid? and so on (dont think i m too practical, all women are... it s like a save instinct)... and you see on my scale you get top points number...
 
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I know what You mean. So what You are saying is that a woman who meets a man like me WOULD expect me to have serious intensions. Would look at me as someone who would be a good father, provider some one to rely on justr because I CAN be all that. Ok. Now. What if a guy in my situation JUST wants to have a good time. I have noticed that I seem to do very well with two types of women , VERY young or late 30's(who were already married). The ones in between for some reason dont click. The ones in the middle tend to rush things. The other thing is that to me some things that were important at 20 is still important now. I guess it takes a lifetime to really get to know yourself. So far I love the experience.
 
What if a guy in my situation JUST wants to have a good time.
I can just say: Sorry, we are closed after 6 o'clock ;)
I cant change peole's nature, you know...
do very well with two types of women , VERY young or late 30's(who were already married).
it s easily understandable: the very young type -> they are still not interested , the late 30 just after divoce -> they are not interested anymore they are fed up for a moment.... ;)
 
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