When you write
"Если меня не будет то какая мне разница что будет?" -
I willingly believe you.
(a bit strange, of course, for a person who has children. because if my children remain here after me, I would care.)
but when I read about the successful beggar, I don't believe you.
my elderly father, even when the roof goes on from time to time, does not forget to worry about the welfare of civilization. he CARES.
and since it is me, not all of mankind, caring for my father, I think it would be fair that I was the first to receive everything that I need.
"Worrying works! Most of the things I worry about never happen." (c)
When I wrote
"Если меня не будет то какая мне разница что будет?"
I followed one of my principles:
"If I can do nothing to change it I don't worry about it".
Since I cannot prevent Yellowstone exploding and other apocalyptic scenarios, I don't worry about them. Period. This does not make me indifferent to the fate of my children.
Who was talking about a "successful beggar"? It's either a beggar or a millionaire? Nothing in between? There are plenty of successful people (with close knit, loving families, with rewarding careers and universal recognition that are not rich.
By the way, "rich" is such a vague term, that it can hardly be used as a definition of anything. Rich in New York and rich in Harare are 2 different things.
I simply said that personal and professional success does not require a "million dollar apartment". By the way, while "a million dollar apartment" is quite ordinary in San Francisco, I cannot imagine what it is in Kharkov.
I am not worrying about welfare of civilization. I believe that if I worry about the welfare of my family, and my family has all it needs and it's happy, I contributed enough into the welfare of civilization. But I admire people who worry about the welfare of civilization and contribute to it in more meaningful ways.
However, some people have a perverted view of "welfare of civilization" that is contrary to mine, but that's another story.
I wholeheartedly agree that "it would be fair that you were the first to receive everything that you need". Most people believe they deserve everything they need and more. But the World is not fair.
Some people measure success, at least in part, by how well they fulfilled their duty - to their family, to their country. Yes, this view is mostly obsolete today, but it still survives in some places.
And many rich and successful (in public's view) people end up deeply unhappy or even depressed, sometimes even overdosing on drugs and dying.