it means, sorry, you didn't have all this.
and I have a living example before my eyes.
The successful inventor, Doctor of Technical Sciences, university professor, scientist, outstanding specialist in his field - we have all this in abundance at home.
He could to move to France when it was relevant. But no - "где родился, там и пригодился." And completely in vain.
In general, you are unlikely to understand me. Here I am so mercantile, yes. I propose to round off this discussion.
What didn't I have?
Do you think there are no doctors, professors, outstanding specialists here in the West that are poor when they are old?
Here it depends a lot on your money management and investment skills, and if you just didn't pay attention to money, if you are a spendthrift, a gambler, if you invested all your money in some enterprise that did not work out you can be penniless in old age.
On the other hand, if you are a teacher earning measly $2K - $3K a month, but you lived below your means and invested diligently, you can be a millionaire.
If you are a millionaire, you could just be a good saver, a prudent investor, though not particularly successful in your career.
I am not saying you are mercantile (they don's say it like that in English, it's purely Russian translation), I am saying that success usually brings money, but not always.
There are plenty of people with money that are not at all successful.
I don't understand why it's so hard to get what I am saying.
I see why you are bitter, but your bitterness influences your opinions and not letting you see clearly.
I have a coworker, a very talented engineer, she is an old lady. She is brilliant and exceptionally good at what she does, she is a workaholic who spent all her life working for good companies and earning large salaries.
She is well respected by her colleagues and always praised by her managers. She knows several languages, she is very interesting to talk to, well traveled, highly educated.
However, she made a bunch of bad decisions in her life (trying to become a doctor mid-career, owning a farm, horses, etc.)
So, she has very little in terms of financial security, she has to work to pay her bills.